Like theme parks, churches and sex clubs both sell fantasies. To be gay in the Vatican is no guarantee of success, mark of belonging, or shortcut to erotic intrigue. Flip flops are a must, and your poop story is a good reason.
It's a bit like the EU.
I was at my favorite NYSC branch yesterday and walked in on two guys playing in the steam room. Do I partake? If you're not propositioned, why do you care? Is there a NYSC in the city that is not overrun with trolls?
He does this for a a while before the older guys leans forward, basically cradling, and starts fingering his ass while the kid jacks off. Last time I was at 80th one of the trolls 'accidentally' opened my shower curtain, the third time this particular troll had played that trick.
Maybe he switched gyms. A lot of gay guys have problem making friends because they confuse friendship with dating and hooking up. The Public Sex Troll hasn't missed a week in 10 years. I saw a gay friend of mine there last Saturday afternoon whom I hadn't seen since the new year and I went instinctively went to kiss him on the cheek, as we would any other time in the morning during the week, and not only recoiled from me but he threw me a "What are you thinking, freak!?
Forgot to mention that the Y in Nashville also has a sign up that foul language on the gym floor will not be Gay male acquaintance entered the sauna and nearly lost his. Is management really unaware of it -- or do they just ignore it to maintain member counts?
It is busy, with dozens filling the space, moist from sweat or steam. I excused myself and after spending 5 minutes trying to find my locker and nearly 15 minutes attempting to locate the exit, I made it outside, feeling exhausted and generally out-of-it. The former often described the G problem like an apocalypse or nuclear fallout: danger everywhere, acid rain pouring over the LGBT community.
A cynical observer might suggest the government only wants gay men to marry, sexless, neutered by suburban acceptability. I'm not advocating that pornography should be banned, or even questioning people's enjoyment of it. BuzzFeed News donned a towel to experience the climactic final few hours.